Growth and Discernment

Tips & Quips—TIP

Almost every time I’ve heard the phrase “growing pains,” the focus has been on “pains” instead of “growing.” All too often, we choose to focus on the “bad” in any situation instead of deliberately focusing on the good that is often also present. This shift in focus changes things, usually for the better.

As a writer, I have had to hone my focus—or skills of discernment—in order to arrive at the freedom I now experience. One of the most important things I have learned throughout my writing career is just how important it is to have a plan for requesting and receiving feedback.

Feedback is not the same across the board. This is true of every aspect of life, but it’s especially true of writing. Being deliberate—or discerning—about who, what, and when you ask for feedback can make all the difference in how you feel about your own work, which often results in more confidence and growth as a writer, as well as greater ease in sharing your craft. How freeing is that!